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The winter is a bit gloomy, cold and unpredictable for those of us in the parts of the world who has to deal with fluctuating changes in the winter months.
It is now Spring, let’s get out, take some walks, clear our heads and take life by its gentle Butterfly Wings. Let us think of renewal and how we can help ourselves and those around us. It is so refreshing and rewarding when in the midst of our most painful trials in life, to put a smile on someone else’s face.
It is the small things that shines the greatest in the dark, think of the stars. When life happened to me, is how I choose to speak on loosing my daughter, I was blessed to be of service to my family and taking care of my 2 and 4-year-old grand daughters. I continued to take care of my sick step Dad. I sat and talked with him everyday for months while the girls were at school.
We all may have different experiences in our loss. If you can think of something to take part in, to keep you going and not allow the sadness and sorrow engulf you, please get up everyday as if you have a mission to accomplish. Volunteer, go sit with an elderly person or just go for a walk, take deep breaths to relieve the stress and allow oxygen to flow to your brain and throughout your body. Be sure to eat small meals or healthy snacks. You have to feed your body to have strength for the healing.
God will need to use you, there will be others along the way. He will put someone before you, and you may not be in the place where you want to be in your recovery, but, please help, we need each other.
We are like God’s helpers as we live daily with this pain that will never go away, but We learn to live with it. The best way we can honor our babies, is to help others who are in this pain.